Dating men with borderline personality disorder

14 Feb

To be honest, I had recognized his narcissism early on, and foolishly thought I could handle it--but this control issue kept rearing its ugly little head, and it was profoundly injurious to our bond.

you won't leave, because you'll keep hoping for the good times to return--but beware!

No question, I was doing all the heavy emotional lifting in that relationship.

Tears streamed down his face, whenever I'd try to engage him on any topic we were struggling with--no matter issues that had already been fully discussed and resolved) in his effort to throw me off track, and maintain control.

It's refreshing to find a guy who doesn't censor his feelings or thoughts, and seems emotionally accessible!

It's incredible that this man appears so completely without guile, he almost instantly puts you at ease and inspires your trust. As this courtship picks up speed, you feel lucky to have found such a considerate, thoughtful, loving man~ but as you begin trusting that his pronouncements of love are Casanova makes sure you know how grateful he is to have finally found you, because you're "like no other woman" he's ever known.

If you suspect that you have these traits, please leave this website and redirect your attention to Admittedly, I had a challenging time starting to write this article, because the bulk of people who contacted me about their BPD relationships had been men, but I kept getting letters from females who said, "what about us~ why aren't you writing about encounters with narcissistic or borderline disordered males, and they taught me about what to avoid.

I'm sure that trusting my personality features and narcissism in males as comprehensively as possible, so you can begin to rebalance/heal from your most tormenting relationship experiences.

Browse the various sub-sections in this piece while you're visiting--they describe the intricate aspects of personality disordered men and their behaviors.

His enthusiasm and glee seem authentic: One of my ex's would initially remark how better than to get involved.

He spoke rather critically about his ex wives, yet couldn't figure out why they were all so insecure!